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bribing your kids

The danger of inconsistent reinforcement (and how to avoid it)

Inconsistent reinforcement sounds like a big concept, but I promise it’s not! A child–whether atypically developing or typically–will repeat behaviors that are reinforced or rewarded (this is positive reinforcement) and will most likely not repeat behaviors that are not reinforced or punished. We all understand this concept as human beings; after all, we see it

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Defining behavioral science: Descriptive Praise

Have you heard of descriptive praise? By the name alone, you can probably guess that it involving praising your child in a descriptive way, but how is descriptive praise different than any other type of praise? Let me give you an example. Your kid says, “Mom! Watch me!” and then jumps from the diving board

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parent and therapist partnership

Parent and therapist partnership: How to work well with your child’s therapist or psychiatrist

You’ve decided to get help for your child in the form of therapy, and have reached out to a therapist, psychologist, and psychiatrist. Good job! But how to navigate the parent and therapist partnership? You will need to work as a team with mutual respect, support, and guidance. Here’s what you need to know: Trust

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autism and rewards

Ask the expert: Help! My kid’s hand is always down his pants

My child really enjoys having his hand down his pants…and it always seems to be at the most embarrassing moments, like when we’re in public! First of all, breathe, mama. It’s normal. It’s also normal to feel embarrassed by this behavior, and to cringe when your child is exploring his body in line at Target

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depression vs bipolar disorder

Depression vs Bipolar disorder: what is the difference?

Depression vs bipolar disorder is confusing. Most parents are familiar with the concept of a depression diagnosis, and hopefully, you know what signs to look for when you think your child or teen may have depression. Depression is more than just feeling low or being moody. It’s a deep feeling of sadness, lack of interest,

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parenting tips

Things your child needs in their emotional suitcase

In the fall of 2020, we were preparing to move 10,000 miles from northern Virginia to southeast Asia for three years.  Prior to doing so, our family decided to take one last “Goodbye America” road trip across the United States from Virginia to Oregon to visit family out west.  The whole family was excited, but our three

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